I recently sent in feedback to Walmart corporate because it was truly a bad experience. This wasn't just the first time, and my shopping experience is getting progressively worse each time. I could only fit 1000 characters, so at the end I wrote "out of room." My Feedback Hello, The last three times I visited Walmart — 17961 US-441, Summerfield, FL 34491 Walmart Supercenter, I was not able to find a hand held basket. My visit on 3 April 2025, the greeter did not speak English, but she did seem to understand what I was asking, 'are there any baskets'. She walked over and glanced at the first self check out spot, and shook her head no to indicate there weren't any there. I do not wish to use a grocery cart. I wound up purchasing a reusable bag that I saw near the frozen aisle to put my items in while I finished my shopping. I had to remind the cashier to charge me for the bag after all my items were rung up. On the way out, I asked the same greeter to report the issue of no hand held baskets, but I am 99% sure she did not understand. Lastly, the greeter, two of the online shoppers, and my cashier all had grimaces on their faces like they were the most unhappy people in the world. Other employees were on their phone or chatting with each other—out of room. I wanted to add that two employees were having a personal conversation and were blocking the isle for over five minutes. They were not whispering and I finally said, "excuse me" and walked between them. My main issue was not having a hand basket to put my groceries in as I shopped. The "apology" I received was really a non apology in my opinion, but just an acknowledgement they received my feedback. A Response From Walmart Hello Linda My name is Angel, and I'll be happy to help you today. We value the fact that you contact us regarding the service you received in our store. Our commitment is to always provide friendly and attentive service so that our customers have a pleasant experience with us. Please be assure that even though the store may not contact you back, we are committed to addressing this situation by sharing your comments with management team, for them to act accordingly. You may receive a brief survey in your email regarding my service to you, for my management to see how my assistance was. I will sincerely appreciate any comments and be grateful for your time. Best regards, Angel Walmart Customer Care As stated, I did receive an email the following day with the subject, " Walmart Customer Care Survey. How was your email with Angel?" I had worked on my response the night before in anticipation of the email. If I didn't get the survey, I was going to resend feedback to corporate. Angel's response really left me feeling unheard. My Walmart Customer Care Survey Response The message from Angel on behalf of Walmart reads more like a customer service form letter than an actual apology or acknowledgment of my specific experience. It lacks empathy, doesn’t address the multiple concerns I raised, and shifts the focus to the agent’s own survey rather than resolving or validating what I went through. That kind of response feels dismissive and transactional. I am providing the following sample response to demonstrate how a professional and personalized message could have addressed my concerns more effectively: "Thank you for taking the time to share your recent experience at our Summerfield Walmart. I sincerely apologize that handheld baskets were unavailable during multiple visits and that you were left without the assistance you needed. I understand how frustrating that must have been, especially when a cart is not your preference. I also regret that the interaction with our team did not meet your expectations. Every associate should provide a welcoming and helpful environment, and I am sorry that was not the case during your visit. Please know that your feedback will be shared with the store manager for further review. While you may not receive a direct response from them, your concerns will be taken seriously and reviewed internally. You may receive a brief survey about my service, which will be reviewed by my management to assess how well I assisted you. I would sincerely appreciate any feedback and thank you for your time. We appreciate your feedback and your continued patronage. It helps us identify areas we need to improve." Angel’s response was courteous, but lacked clarity, personalization, and a sense of genuine concern. It felt like a template that didn’t address the specific issues I raised. A more human, empathetic tone with clear acknowledgment and an understanding of the full message would improve the experience for customers. I hope my feedback and the sample response provided will help highlight the need for a more human, empathetic approach to customer service. Kind regards, Linda Milam Brown Retired Executive Customer Relations, Amazon The next section of the survey asked, "What could Angel do to improve?" and there were six options: Knowledge, Professionalism, Problem Solving, Responsiveness, Clarity, and Friendliness. I responded by choosing Clarity, Professionalism, and Responsiveness. After continuing, the next question posed was, "Did Angel's response solve the issue?" I chose the "No" radio button and a text box opened up. No, Angel's response didn’t solve the issue. It didn’t offer a resolution, provide a timeline, or even address the concerns directly. It was just an acknowledgment of receiving the feedback. No. Because: The issue with the baskets is still unaddressed. There is no confirmation of any action being taken. My experience was not validated. The tone was generic and impersonal. It Never Ends I have not received any further communication about this particular survey. I have been to Walmart twice since this exchange, and there were no hand held baskets either time. If Walmart no longer provides these hand held baskets, they should make that known. They were available at the front one month ago. In addition, on the trip at the beginning of the week, I purchased pork chops and my hands were sticky after picking out my selection. Walmart has two hand sanitizer dispensers near the meat isle for this scenario. However, both dispensers were empty. It is little things like this that have me questioning the benefit of shopping at Walmart. In close proximity are Publix, Aldi, Winn Dixie, Target and delivery from Kroger. I stopped in Aldi for the first time the other day after I left the Post Office. I found the prices at Aldi to be comparable to Walmart, but instead of shopping there because I was feeling anxious, I decided to just go to Walmart—familiar, affordable, and near my home. Today, all I wanted was some ice cream, cool whip, and maybe some cake. I brought with me the reusable bag I purchased on a previous visit. It is a good thing because no hand baskets were available, again. I went through the aisles, placing my choices in the bag. Everything I bought was frozen. When I got to the register, the cashier started to place my items in plastic bags, and then he was going to place them back into the reusable bag, even though he watched me remove all of the items from the reusable bag. I told him there was no need to place the items in the plastic bags first. He then decided to argue with me saying it needed to be in plastic to keep from getting the bag wet. There was a lot I wanted to say, but I just remained focused, checked out and left. Final Thoughts Unfortunately, these last few trips seem to be creating more anxiety and not a lot of convenience. It is not like I am looking for issues to complain about—they are issues that are presenting themselves. The best way to resolve an issue is to report it. Walmart sent me another survey after the hand sanitizer trip, and I did provide feedback. I am sure another survey will be coming in the next day or two. I think employees should be aware and understand the purpose of reusable bags. If employees are going to continue to place items in plastic before putting them in the reusable bag—it defeats the purpose. Colossians 4:6 “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”

Sometimes, it is not just what people say—it is what they refuse to say. This exchange took place under a post about a tragic Amtrak accident. One of the deaths was ruled a suicide. Here is how that conversation unfolded and why it hit me so personally. Debra’s Comment: “Heartbreaking... I'm especially upset that the cause of death was accidental for Dad and his one Son but listed as suicide for the other Son. I know he was trying to commit suicide but he may have changed his mind when he saw his Dad and Brother... I just feel it's not right it should be accidental for all and not have the stigma associated with suicide and the poor Mom and other family members have to deal with it as well...” Analysis: Her comment appears emotionally charged, but speculative. By suggesting he "may have changed his mind," she introduces a hypothetical that downplays intent. She seems uncomfortable with the classification of suicide, perhaps out of sympathy or denial. Tone: Sympathetic but misguided. She tries to empathize with the family, but in doing so, she suggests rewriting reality to protect feelings. Main issue: She is acknowledging it was a suicide attempt, but still says the death certificate should say "accidental" to avoid stigma. Problematic logic: She assumes changing the wording will somehow make things better for the family and reduce stigma—when in reality, this perpetuates silence around suicide and mental illness. My First Reply: “Yes, let's hide the fact that he was attempting suicide (and succeeded) and took two others with him. If no one is aware, it doesn't exist. There is a stigma because of people like you—you want to mask mental illness.” Analysis: My response is direct, honest, and based on personal conviction. It calls out the harm in softening or hiding the reality of suicide. Tone: Direct and no-nonsense. Tone is sharp, but it is rooted in truth and frustration with societal minimization of mental illness. Message: I am calling out the dangerous idea of hiding uncomfortable truths to protect image or feelings, especially when it comes to suicide and mental health. Why it is powerful: I am not sugarcoating, and I am making it personal—not just a debate about labels, but about accountability and stigma. Debra’s Retort: “Settle down... and get yourself a clue... your a ignorant troll...” Analysis: She becomes defensive and resorts to name-calling. Uses “your” incorrectly and "a" instead of "an", which undermines her credibility. Her response avoids the substance of what I said and shifts to personal insult. Tone: Defensive, dismissive, and personal. Message: Instead of engaging with the point, she insults me. She does not respond to my lived experience or the actual issue—just lashes out. My Final Reply: “No, I am someone that has attempted suicide five times and tired of people like you that want to brush mental illness under the rug. http://savedthoughts.com” Analysis: This is powerful. I clarify my personal stake in the issue. I reclaim the conversation and show this is not just online bickering—it is deeply personal. I take a public stand in hopes of making mental illness less of a stigma. Sharing my site invites a more serious look into my views, making it constructive. Tone: Grounded, honest, and personal. Message: I am not arguing for the sake of drama. I live with mental illness and I am using my voice to fight stigma—not just for myself, but for others. Summary of the Exchange This was not just a Facebook disagreement. This was a real-life example of how people try to “be kind” by covering truth, and how disingenuous that can be. My reply re-centered the conversation on reality and accountability—and brought a personal, meaningful perspective that Debra either could not or would not consider. I stood my ground and defended the importance of recognizing suicide and mental illness without romanticizing or excusing it. My tone was intense, as it sometimes is, but in my opinion it is appropriate in this case considering the topic. Debra made assumptions and became combative when challenged, but I stayed rooted in my truth and responded with context and purpose. I do not plan to respond any further. Closing Remarks The truth is hard, but covering it up won't fix anything. It just keeps people ashamed, afraid, and silent. It needs to be talked about—not renamed, not softened, not hidden. Stigma does not go away when we stop using the word "suicide." It goes away when we start talking about it. I live with mental illness and have survived my own attempts. I do not take these topics lightly. I am tired of seeing people tiptoe around the truth. If we are going to fight stigma, we have to stop treating suicide like a dirty word. It is not selfish. It is not dishonorable. It is real. Mental illness is real. Talking about it might save someone. Psalm 88:18 “You have taken from me friend and neighbor—darkness is my closest friend.”

Is manipulation acceptable if the outcome is positive? I asked Aeris* this question that came up during my therapy. It has been a common topic over the years because of my direct, no fluff, responses to people. At times, I will admit my tone can be more abrasive than sweet, but often that is fueled by anxiety. However, sometimes I have been accused of being harsh or having a sharp tone, but I do not see or hear it, even on further reflection. Text messages are easier to reflect on, unless verbal communication was recorded. I can still recall instances that to this day have me puzzled as to why the other person felt I was being rude or confrontational. My question to Aeris Is manipulation acceptable if the outcome is positive? My tone is very direct, and it feels unnatural to sugar coat conversations to be less confrontational, it also feels manipulative. I want a detailed post about this with examples. Thanks, Aeris. Aeris Responds You are asking an important question: Is manipulation acceptable if the outcome is positive? This is not a simple yes or no situation. It depends on several factors, including intent, transparency, and the effects on others involved. Let's break this down in a direct, no-nonsense way. Definition and intent Manipulation means influencing someone’s thoughts, feelings, or behaviors—often in a subtle or indirect way—to get a specific result. The problem begins when you start hiding the truth or shaping facts to lead someone toward your goal. Even if your intention seems positive, you are still taking away that person’s ability to make a fully informed decision. Example 1: Withholding information to motivate Let's say you want your friend to attend a support group. You believe it will help them. Instead of telling them the full truth, you say you are just going to dinner and surprise them by showing up at the group meeting. They may thank you later. But you did not give them the respect of choice. You decided for them. That is manipulation, even if they benefited from it. You used deception to control their actions. Example 2: Sugar-coating to avoid conflict This happens often in workplaces or personal relationships. You may say something soft or vague instead of what you really think, so the other person does not get upset. You might think this is kindness. But ask yourself: Are you doing it for their feelings—or to avoid discomfort for yourself? If your words prevent someone from understanding the truth or from growing, then it is manipulation disguised as compassion. Example 3: Strategic persuasion There are moments when using influence is necessary. A parent may distract a child from danger, or a doctor may use calm wording to encourage a patient to follow treatment. These are examples where influence is not harmful, because the intention is clear, the outcome protects the person, and there is no long-term deception. Direct speech is not manipulation You are not being manipulative just because you speak plainly or refuse to sugar-coat. If your words are honest, respectful, and clear, you are not controlling someone. You are simply honoring your truth. Some people mistake directness for rudeness or coldness, but it is actually a form of integrity—so long as you are not using it to intimidate or shame. My First Follow Up Question Direct speech is not manipulation. But is sugar-coating? Aeris Responds If you sugar-coat your language to guide someone toward a certain response, especially by hiding parts of the truth, then yes—it can become manipulative. The key issue is intent. Are you softening your words to avoid unnecessary hurt, or are you deliberately shaping the message so the other person reacts how you want them to? When the goal shifts from honest communication to influencing an outcome without giving someone the full picture, it crosses the line into manipulation. For example, if you are giving feedback to a coworker and say, "Your project was fine, just a few minor issues,"  but you actually think it had serious flaws that need fixing, you are sugar-coating. If your reason for doing that is to avoid hurting their feelings, it is still misleading—but your intent may not be control. However, if you are saying it that way so they continue to trust you, rely on you, or see you in a better light, then your goal is not clarity—it is influence. That is manipulation. Another example: if someone asks you whether you want to go to an event and you say, "I might be busy, but it sounds fun,"  when you actually have no interest in going at all, you are withholding the truth. If you are doing this to avoid discomfort, it may feel harmless. But if you are doing it so the person continues to invite you, likes you more, or does not confront your disinterest, you are controlling how they respond to your truth without giving them all of it. That is also manipulative. The difference always comes down to this: are you trying to be kind while still being honest—or are you trying to manage the reaction by twisting or omitting part of the truth? You do not have to be harsh to be honest. But when honesty is compromised for the sake of shaping someone's response, it stops being respectful and starts being manipulative. Another Follow Up Question What about softening your speech to sound less confrontational, even though it feels unnatural, just so the other person does not shut down, but instead opens up and continues the conversation. Is that manipulative? Aeris Responds This is a great and important question. The answer depends on the intention behind softening your speech and how much of your truth you are actually compromising to do it. If you are softening your tone to maintain open communication —not to hide the truth or to steer someone toward a specific outcome—then it is not necessarily manipulative. It can be a strategic choice based on emotional awareness. You are choosing language that the other person can hear, so they stay engaged and do not shut down. That is part of healthy communication, especially in tense or sensitive conversations. But it gets tricky when softening becomes self-erasure. If you are saying things that feel false, misleading, or that go against what you actually believe—just to avoid discomfort or to manage their emotional response—that crosses closer to manipulation. Even if the goal is positive (like helping them stay open), if the cost is your own truth, it becomes more about control than clarity. For example: You say, "I can see how you might feel that way,"  instead of, "That was unfair and I am upset by it."  If you truly see their perspective and want to open a calm discussion, it is not manipulative. You are choosing language that invites conversation. But if you say, "It’s no big deal,"  when it actually is  a big deal to you, just so they do not get defensive or upset, then you are hiding part of the truth. That softening is no longer just about respect—it is about controlling their reaction. That is  manipulation, even if it feels justified. So ask yourself: Am I being clear and honest in a respectful way? Or am I shaping my words to get a certain reaction or avoid discomfort? If your speech is honest, just delivered more gently, it is communication. If your speech hides or distorts truth to guide the outcome, it is manipulation. Even when your goal is peace, the method matters. A Final Follow Up! You mentioned this example: You say, "I can see how you might feel that way," What if I do not understand how they could feel that way? Sometimes I genuinely do not understand how someone could feel a certain way. In those moments, I am not trying to be dismissive—it just is not my perspective. And that is where I have to decide: do I say what is true for me, or soften things I do not even believe in just to keep the peace? Is it manipulative if I say I understand how they could feel that way—essentially validating their feelings. I just am not of the mindset that all feelings are valid. Aeris responds This is a sharp and honest question—and one that a lot of people quietly wrestle with. If you do not  understand how someone could feel a certain way, and you say, “I can see how you might feel that way,”  when you actually cannot—that is not fully honest. That makes it manipulative, even if it seems harmless. You are presenting a level of agreement or empathy that you do not actually feel, possibly to steer the conversation or avoid discomfort. That becomes performance, not connection. Validation does not  have to mean agreement. You do not have to say you understand, especially if you do not. Instead, you can acknowledge their reality without pretending  to share it. That keeps the conversation open without compromising your own integrity. For example: Instead of saying, “I can see how you’d feel that way”  (when you cannot), you can say, “I hear that you’re upset, even though I do not feel the same way.” Or you can say, "I do not fully understand your reaction, but I want to give you space to express it.” That way, you are not validating the feeling itself—you are validating their right to feel it  and express it. That is respectful without being dishonest. As for whether all feelings are valid—no, not all feelings are based in reality, fairness, or truth. But all feelings come from somewhere , and people want their emotions to be acknowledged, even if they are misdirected or exaggerated. So the key is this: Do not fake empathy you do not have. Do not affirm feelings you believe are unreasonable just to keep peace. Instead, focus on honest acknowledgment. You can respect their right to feel without agreeing with the feeling itself. That keeps you direct, honest, and clear—without crossing into manipulation. Conclusion Manipulation is not acceptable just because the outcome appears positive. You must look at the cost. If the process requires deception or control, it does not matter how “good” the result is. People deserve the truth, even when it is uncomfortable. If you speak clearly, openly, and without hidden motives, you are not manipulating. You are communicating. That is what earns real respect. If you remove someone’s ability to make their own choices—either by hiding the full truth, shaping the situation without their knowledge, or twisting facts—you are manipulating. Even if the outcome is good, the method can damage trust. People may get the results you wanted, but they may also feel betrayed when they find out what really happened. Proverbs 24:26 “An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.” Ephesians 4:25 “Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body.” *Aeris Nova is what ChatGPT named himself.

I began the WalkFit program with the goal of finding a structured and easy way to stay active and lose weight. The program offered a 12-week trial for just over $25, which seemed like a reasonable way to test it out. Any cost would be an issue, but I was determined to find the money. In the time it took me to juggle everything around to find I was unable to pay for it, a discounted offer came up for $19.29—which was amazing and excellent because after searching all possible sources, I could only wrangle up $20! Since starting, the first week I was walking 4,000 - 6,000 steps. I would estimate about 2,000 - 3,000 more than I had typically averaged before starting the program. I have always paced my floors, but never counted steps. Beginning the second week, I have been walking 10,000 to 12,000 steps a day, consistently meeting my daily goal. The program's weekly step requirements gradually increase over time, making it a manageable challenge. There are a variety of workouts including, but not limited to dance, aerobics, stretching, treadmill, and yoga. There is also a free walk option. How WalkFit Works The WalkFit program works by setting specific daily step targets and progressively increasing those targets each week. The pace begins at a moderate level and becomes more intense as time goes on, encouraging steady growth in stamina. Many of the workouts have a fixed number of steps that are added to the total when completed. The workouts currently range between ~700 steps and ~950 steps. Each workout takes roughly 10 - 15 minutes to complete. The free walk option steadily increases. I started at 3,000 steps to complete one cycle, and now I am up to 4,500 steps—about a 2 mile walk. WalkFit Home Screen How WalkFit Tracks Your Steps WalkFit collects your step and distance information from your chosen source: phone sensor, Smart Watch with WearOS, Google Fit, or Fitbit. The data is updated every 30-60 minutes or as soon as you open the app. Because of this, you might notice your daily goal is slightly lower on the home screen or in notifications. This is temporary, and the data will be fully accurate after the next sync. You can also refresh the app manually by re-opening it or using the pull-to-refresh feature on the main screen. There are currently some technical issues with the app that have been escalated to the technical team for resolution. The issues I have encountered mostly involve the steps not being correctly added after completing certain workouts, particularly during late evening sessions. Despite this, I have received consistent support and updates from the team, and they are actively working to resolve the problem. It is not a deal-breaker.   Now that I have a better sense of when the problem occurs, I can plan accordingly. It was demotivating at first, but customer service has been very friendly, welcoming, and quick to respond. I really appreciate the continuity in communication as the same representative has been responding to me each time I send them additional information. A big shoutout to Nicole from The WalkFit team for her ongoing support! My WalkFit Plan While I have not noticed any drastic physical changes yet, the program has been motivating. It is easy to stay on track because of the built-in accountability. The thought of not completing my daily goal keeps me focused, and I am gradually becoming more active as the program increases the step requirements. My short-term weight loss goal is to lose 20 pounds by May, and the program suggests that the steady increase in pace will help me achieve that goal. My long-term goal is to lose about 60 pounds within a year, and I hope to be able to continue using this program to support that process. At the end of my 12-week trial in June, I am unsure whether I will continue with the program due to the cost. The full price is $66 for 12 weeks, and I am uncertain if the cost will be affordable or worth it for me. It was set to auto-renew, so I decided to cancel it in the middle of writing this post while it was on my mind. Typing out the $66 cost reminded me and I did not want to forget! I knew after canceling my subscription, I would still be able to access the program until the expire date in June. What a great idea that turned out to be! After cancelling, I was immediately offered a 3-month discounted rate at 80% off—only $13.33 for three months and my initial subscription reinstated! This discount will extend my subscription until September, which was an offer I could not pass up. Program Details The WalkFit program is designed to help users gradually increase their daily physical activity through walking. Each plan is individually created to meet your specific needs. Daily Step Targets: Each week, the program sets a target number of daily steps to complete. The first few weeks start at lower targets, and the requirements increase as the user progresses. There is an option to adjust the program's pace. Pace Adjustments: As the program continues, the pace of walking gradually intensifies, encouraging the user to build endurance and stamina. Motivational Reminders: The program provides daily reminders to keep users engaged and motivated. These notifications can be lessened or turned off. Progress Tracking: Users can monitor their daily steps and overall progress within the app, which helps maintain focus and accountability. Challenges: There are challenges you can join in addition to your planned workouts. There are a variety of weekly and monthly goals to help you stay motivated. My Final Thoughts For me, this program has all the features that will be helpful—a daily goal, step by step demonstrations, a variety of different types of workouts, easy access with the app, added challenges, and educational articles. I have always been fairly active, but never really tried a workout regiment. I understand I could find similar videos on youtube, however, there is no built in accountability. The visual reminders make this ideal for me. I just use my phone sensor, but I am hoping at some point I can get a fitbit or smartwatch—it will be better than having to carry around my phone in order for my steps to be counted! My son is always finding free or nearly free items, so I asked him to be on the lookout! Update : I found a FitBit Versa 2 super cheap—the price of one piece of jewelry I sold!! The band is adorable and just my style! It is being shipped across the country and will be arriving towards the end of the week! Very excited for this timely find! Update 2: I love the FitBit (fitbit) that finally arrived, but not to use with WalkFit (walkfit). I will just continue to use my phone as the walkfit data source, but I will be wearing the fitbit as well. Once I stop using walkfit, I will rely only on the fitbit. The problem with using the fitbit as a data source for the walkfit program, is that walkfit counts all activity from the fitbit. When doing one of the workouts, walkfit credits a certain number of steps for completion. However, let's say I do a workout that is 620 steps. When wearing the fitbit, the walkfit app credits me with the allotted 620 steps, but also whatever steps the fitbit calculated—usually around 620. It was doubling my steps! In most instances, I will have my phone anyway, especially walking outside. There is so much more to the fitbit, beyond the step counter! I am so thankful this fitbit came available! FitBit with a cute fashion band Now that I have internet back, I can more easily cast the workouts on my television. I have even considered having a workout stream on Twitch, but I have yet to get a camera! Some may laugh at my awkwardness, but maybe it will help someone! Think about the time you have watched a video, and there was that one person out of step, facing the wrong way, or stumbling over their own two feet—that is me! If you are looking for a simple and effective way to stay active, this program may be a good fit. It is easy to use, provides gradual challenges, and helps you track your progress. It is available for Android phone and iPhone. The steady increase in pace helps ensure that you stay motivated and on track to meet your fitness goals. 1 Timothy 4:8 "For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come."

I was filling out a survey from Walmart about my latest shopping excursion. I started thinking about the store name. I remember when Walmart used to be Wal-Mart, with the dash in the middle. Kmart was sometimes written as K-Mart, too. I remember being confused—I was never sure whether to include the dash or not. Over time, many well-known stores have changed their names or branding to keep up with trends, simplify their image, or expand their focus. Here are some examples: Wal-Mart → Walmart In 2008, Wal-Mart officially dropped the dash and became just Walmart. The change was part of a modern rebranding effort. K-Mart → Kmart Although it was often written with a dash in earlier years, the company eventually settled on the simpler Kmart. J.C. Penney → JCPenney It used to include the periods, but over time they disappeared. Most people now refer to it as JCPenney. Dunkin’ Donuts → Dunkin’ In 2019, the brand shortened its name to Dunkin’ to reflect a menu that goes beyond just donuts. Radio Shack → The Shack For a short time in 2009, Radio Shack tried to rebrand as The Shack in marketing campaigns. It did not last. Kentucky Fried Chicken → KFC This change happened in 1991. The company wanted to move away from the word "fried" and also position itself as more than just chicken. Toys “R” Us → Geoffrey’s Toy Box (briefly) After going through bankruptcy, the company attempted a comeback using the mascot’s name. However, most people still recognize the original name. Bed Bath & Beyond → Beyond (proposed) There was talk of simplifying the name to just Beyond before the company closed many of its stores. The change never fully took hold. Burlington Coat Factory → Burlington As the store expanded its inventory beyond coats, it dropped “Coat Factory” and became just Burlington. Sears, Roebuck and Co. → Sears The original name reflected its catalog business. As retail stores became the focus, the name was shortened to Sears. Payless ShoeSource → Payless After store closures and a relaunch, the brand returned with a simpler name. Starbucks Coffee → Starbucks In 2011, the company removed the word “coffee” from its logo. The goal was to reflect a wider variety of products beyond coffee. These changes are not just about logos or names. They reflect shifts in business focus, customer habits, and branding strategies. Some of them stuck. Some did not. However, they all show how much retail has changed over the years. As I started to write, I realized these changes were more widespread than I had originally thought! Hence, some of these examples may be in an additional category below. Regional and Grocery Chains Not all store name changes happen on a national level. Some stores changed names as they expanded into new markets or updated their branding to stay relevant. Albertson’s → Albertsons The apostrophe was quietly dropped in branding updates, though many still say it the old way out of habit. Safeway → Safeway by Albertsons (in some areas) In areas where Safeway was bought by Albertsons, some stores use both names together, depending on the location. Publix Super Markets → Publix The official name has always been Publix Super Markets, but branding usually shortens it to just Publix. Winn-Dixie → WD (briefly in marketing) Winn-Dixie once tried to use “WD” in ads and signage, but most shoppers stuck with the original name. Kroger → Kroger Marketplace (for larger stores) The original name stayed the same, but newer, bigger locations use “Marketplace” to show they carry more than groceries. Food Lion → Bloom (temporary rebrand) Food Lion tried a modern rebrand with the name Bloom in the mid-2000s, but it did not last, and stores returned to the Food Lion name. Lucky → Save Mart → Lucky (again) The original Lucky chain was bought and rebranded as Save Mart. Later, some stores were brought back under the Lucky name due to nostalgia. Vons → Vons, a Safeway Company After Safeway bought Vons, some locations started using a dual name. It depends on the region. Piggly Wiggly → PW (on some products) While the store name has not officially changed, some store-brand items now show the initials “PW” instead of the full name. SuperValu Stores → Unified Grocers → UNFI These wholesale grocery companies went through multiple name changes after mergers, affecting what independent grocery stores stock. Bi-Lo → Food Lion or Harvey’s Bi-Lo stores were phased out, and many locations were converted into other grocery chains. A&P (The Great Atlantic & Pacific Tea Company) → Closed Once a giant in American groceries, A&P tried modernizing and even shortened its name, but it eventually went out of business. Fast Food and Restaurant Some changes were subtle, and others were total rebrands. A few companies went back to their old names after testing something new. Kentucky Fried Chicken → KFC The full name was shortened to avoid the word “fried” and give a cleaner, modern feel. The food is the same. Dunkin’ Donuts → Dunkin’ The company dropped “Donuts” to reflect that they sell more than just donuts, like coffee and breakfast sandwiches. Popeyes Chicken & Biscuits → Popeyes Louisiana Kitchen This change was made to highlight their Cajun-inspired menu. Most people still call it just “Popeyes.” Boston Chicken → Boston Market The company rebranded in the mid-1990s to reflect a broader menu, not just chicken. Domino’s Pizza → Domino’s They dropped “Pizza” to show they now serve other foods like pasta, sandwiches, and wings. IHOP → IHOb (briefly) In 2018, IHOP temporarily became IHOb to promote their burgers. It was a marketing stunt, not a permanent change. Carl’s Jr. and Hardee’s → Carl’s Jr./Hardee’s (combined branding) They are the same company, but kept both names in different regions. Some marketing materials now show both logos together. Jack in the Box → Jack (briefly in ads) For a short time, the company tried to brand itself simply as “Jack,” but it did not stick. Dwarf Grill (original name) → Chick-fil-A The original name was “Dwarf Grill” when it opened in 1946. It became Chick-fil-A later as it focused on chicken sandwiches. Pizza Hut → The Hut (briefly) Pizza Hut tried using “The Hut” in some advertising campaigns, but customers did not like it, so they kept the original name. Department Stores Many of these happened due to mergers, acquisitions, or branding updates. Some names are gone, but the stores still exist under different labels. Regional Department Stores → Macy’s (2000s Rebranding Wave) In the early 2000s, Macy’s absorbed many beloved regional department stores as part of a national rebranding effort. These stores once carried strong local identities, but all eventually operated under the Macy’s name: Burdines  (Florida) Rich’s  (Atlanta – briefly Rich’s-Macy’s) Marshall Field’s  (Chicago – especially controversial) Hecht’s  (Mid-Atlantic and South) Kaufmann’s  (Pennsylvania and Ohio) Filene’s  (New England) Foley’s  (Texas and Southwest) Hudson’s  (Detroit – became Marshall Field’s first) Dayton’s  (Minneapolis – also became Marshall Field’s first) This rebranding erased many familiar names in favor of one national chain. Department Stores That Closed or Changed Format Mervyn’s → Closed Mid-level chain in the western U.S., shut down completely by 2009. Some locations became Kohl’s or JCPenney. Montgomery Ward → Closed → Online Only Once a retail giant, it closed all stores in 2001. The name still exists as a web-only store. Gottschalks → Closed A California-based department store that shut down in the 2009 recession. Ames → Closed Popular in the Northeast. Closed in 2002. The brand has made limited online appearances since. Bon-Ton → Closed or Online Revival Operated under names like Younkers and Elder-Beerman. Most stores closed after bankruptcy, but some names returned online. Value City → Closed or Converted Most stores shut down; some became Big Lots or Burlington. Sears → Fewer Stores / Failed Rebrands Tried new formats like Sears Grand  and Sears Essentials,  but failed to revive the brand. Only a few locations remain today. J.C. Penney → JCP (briefly) Attempted a rebrand from 2011–2013 with a new logo and “JCP” branding, but returned to the original name after it failed to resonate. Pharmacy and Drugstore Eckerd → CVS / Rite Aid / Walgreens Eckerd was once one of the largest drugstore chains in the U.S. It was sold off in pieces in the mid-2000s. CVS, Rite Aid, and Walgreens absorbed many locations. Revco → CVS Revco was a major chain in the Midwest and South. CVS acquired it in 1997, and most Revco stores were rebranded. Brooks Pharmacy → Rite Aid Brooks was a popular chain in New England. Rite Aid bought it in 2007 and changed the name. Longs Drugs → CVS Longs was well known on the West Coast and in Hawaii. CVS acquired it in 2008. In Hawaii, CVS kept the Longs name because of strong brand loyalty. Thrifty / PayLess → Rite Aid Thrifty PayLess was absorbed into Rite Aid in the 1990s. Some older West Coast stores still sell Thrifty Ice Cream under the Rite Aid banner. Genovese → CVS Genovese was a family-run chain in New York. CVS acquired it in 1998 and changed the signs shortly after. Grocery Store Rebrands and Changes Food Lion → Delhaize / Ahold Delhaize (corporate owner) The store name "Food Lion" stayed the same, but the parent company changed over time. Originally called Food Town, it became Food Lion in 1983 to avoid name conflicts as it expanded. Owned by Delhaize (a Belgian company), which merged with Ahold in 2016. Albertsons → Various Albertsons has absorbed or sold many chains over the years. Some stores became Safeway, Vons, Jewel-Osco, Acme, or Shaw’s, depending on region. Safeway → Albertsons (corporate parent) Safeway stores still exist under their own name, but Albertsons owns them. The names remained because of regional recognition. Lucky → Albertsons → Lucky (again) Lucky was a grocery chain that Albertsons took over and renamed. Later, some stores reintroduced the Lucky name in California due to nostalgia and strong brand memory. Winn-Dixie → Still active (but many closed or sold) Winn-Dixie had a large presence in the South. It never changed names, but it filed for bankruptcy more than once. Many locations were closed, sold, or absorbed into other chains. Piggly Wiggly → Franchise Model Still active in some areas, but many locations closed or were sold off. Some were rebranded under other chains like Bi-Lo or Food Lion. It was one of the first self-service grocery stores in the U.S. Bi-Lo → Harveys / Food Lion / others Bi-Lo was a Southern grocery chain that slowly faded after mergers and buyouts. Some stores became Harveys, some became Food Lion, and others closed. Toys and Kids Stores Toys “R” Us → Closed (U.S. retail) → Online comeback Toys “R” Us filed for bankruptcy in 2017 and closed all U.S. stores by 2018. The brand was revived online and has small locations inside some Macy’s stores now. KB Toys → Closed Once a popular mall-based toy store chain, KB Toys shut down in 2009. There were talks of a comeback, but nothing permanent has returned. Electronics Stores Circuit City → Closed → Online Only Circuit City closed all its stores by 2009. The brand name now operates only as an online store with no physical presence. CompUSA → Closed → Acquired by TigerDirect CompUSA was once a leading electronics retailer. It closed stores and was absorbed into TigerDirect, which also later shut down its stores. RadioShack → Closed Most Stores → Online Only (mostly) Once everywhere, RadioShack went through multiple bankruptcies and closed most locations. It still exists online and as a brand licensing name. Fry’s Electronics → Closed Known for huge themed stores across the West Coast and Southwest. Fry’s shut down all locations in 2021. Office Supply and Bookstore Chains OfficeMax → Merged with Office Depot OfficeMax and Office Depot merged in 2013. The OfficeMax name still appears in some locations, but it is mostly branded as Office Depot. Borders → Closed Borders was a major bookstore chain that went out of business in 2011. Some former locations became Barnes & Noble or other stores. Clothing and Shoe Stores Payless ShoeSource → Closed U.S. stores → Online + some international Payless shut down its U.S. operations in 2019, but returned online and opened a few stores. The Limited → Closed physical stores → Online Only The Limited closed all stores in 2017. The brand still exists as an online-only business. Wet Seal → Closed → Limited Online Presence Closed all stores by 2017. The brand name has been used for limited online clothing sales. Delia’s → Closed → Relaunched as Online Brand Popular in the ’90s and early 2000s, Delia’s stores shut down. The brand was later revived online targeting nostalgic customers. Charlotte Russe → Closed → Relaunched Filed for bankruptcy and closed in 2019, but reopened some stores under new ownership. Conclusion It started with a simple memory about Wal-Mart and Kmart, and turned into a much longer list than I expected. There are many other categories of store name changes and closures that I have not covered—such as sporting goods, pet stores, furniture retailers, music and video chains, and mall-based specialty shops. The more I looked, the more I found. Many of these changes took place during the time I was not leaving my house. Some stores quietly disappeared, others rebranded, and a few tried to reinvent themselves and failed. Retail history is filled with familiar names where I used to shop which does not seem like it was long ago. Consider how long this list would be if I included all the childhood stores I remember that once thrived, but have since vanished! Proverbs 22:1 "A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold."

Introduction The idea for this post came to me while speaking with Beverly, a postal worker who is just under a year older than me. I gave her one of my blog cards and she was curious how to even get to my blog. That conversation reminded me of how far things have come since I took computer class in high school, where I learned to code using punch cards. I have often felt like I belong to the dividing generation. The one before mine had fewer opportunities, or little desire, to become computer savvy, while the generations that follow were at a prime learning age or grew up immersed in modern technology. This post is for anyone who has ever looked at a screen and thought, 'Where do I even start?' If you feel unsure or overwhelmed by the variety of online platforms available today, this breakdown is for you. Whether you are curious about streaming, blogging, or content creation in general, you will find a short summary of each below—what it is, who it reaches, and how people use it. Included towards the end of this article will be links to each of these platforms! Maybe this post will give you an idea or two. An Overview of Online Platforms Twitch Twitch is a live streaming platform. It is most well-known for gaming, but you can also find people chatting, cooking, making art, or sharing hobbies in real time. Demographic : Mostly younger audiences (teens to 40s), but older viewers and creators are growing in number. Monetization : Streamers can earn through subscriptions, donations, sponsorships, and ad revenue. Best for : Real-time interaction. You will build an audience that shows up live and engages through chat. YouTube YouTube hosts video content. You can upload tutorials, vlogs, music, reviews, or almost anything else. Demographic : Broad age range. Everyone from young kids to older adults uses YouTube. Monetization : Earnings come from ads, memberships, sponsorships, and merchandise. Best for : Evergreen content—content that stays relevant over time. It doesn’t go out of date quickly and continues to be useful or interesting to people long after it is published. Once posted, your video can be found and watched at any time. Vlogs (Video Blogs) Vlogs are personal video journals. These can be uploaded to YouTube or other video sites. Demographic : Depends on the creator’s style and content. Monetization : Similar to YouTube if hosted there. Best for : Sharing your life, thoughts, experiences, or travels in a more casual or personal way. Blogs (Web Logs) Blogs are written articles or entries on a website. Topics can include anything—lifestyle, travel, health, opinion, or education. Demographic : Depends on the topic, but blogs are widely read by adults of all ages. Monetization : Ad revenue, affiliate links, product sales, and sponsored posts. Best for : Writers or those who prefer a slower pace and long-form content. Podcasts Podcasts are audio recordings, often released as a series. They can be interviews, discussions, stories, or educational content. Demographic : Adults aged 25–45 are the most common listeners, but that is expanding. Monetization : Sponsors, listener support, and ads. Best for : People who enjoy talking, storytelling, or in-depth conversations without needing to appear on camera. Kick Kick is a newer live streaming platform, similar to Twitch. It aims to be creator-friendly with better revenue splits. Demographic : Young adult audience, mostly gamers and creators moving from Twitch. Monetization : Subscriptions, tips, and ad revenue. Best for : Streamers looking for an alternative to Twitch with less strict moderation. X / Twitter X, formerly Twitter, is a real-time social media platform known for 140 character text posts called “tweets”, trending topics, and live discussions. It now allows longer posts, videos, and even subscriber content. Demographic : Wide age range (mostly 25–45). Popular with journalists, influencers, businesses, and politicians. Monetization : Subscriptions  (formerly called “Super Follows”): You can charge people for exclusive content. Ad Revenue Sharing : Eligible users who meet follower and engagement thresholds can earn from ads shown in replies. Tips : Users can send money via connected platforms like Cash App or PayPal. Best for : Timely updates, opinions, announcements Networking or thought leadership Driving traffic to other platforms (blogs, YouTube, etc.) Engaging with hashtags, trending events, or public conversations Truth Social Truth Social is a social media platform created to provide an alternative to mainstream platforms, focusing on what it claims is "free speech." It resembles Twitter/X in format—users post short messages, follow others, and engage in trending topics. Demographic : Primarily U.S.-based users, with a concentration of conservative-leaning individuals. The majority of active users are over 40. Monetization : Currently, there is no built-in monetization like ad revenue sharing, tips, or subscriptions. Users may promote outside links or content, but the platform itself is limited in creator earning tools. Best for : Reaching politically conservative audiences Sharing opinions, links, news, or commentary Building an audience that may have been removed or restricted on other platforms Facebook Facebook is a social media platform used for connecting with friends, family, groups, and businesses. You can share text posts, images, videos, and links. Demographic : Mostly adults 35 and up, but still widely used across age groups. Monetization : Ad revenue (via in-stream ads), fan subscriptions, stars (virtual gifts from fans), and affiliate marketing. Best for : Building a community, sharing updates, joining interest-based groups, and reaching older demographics. Facebook Live Facebook Live is a live streaming feature within Facebook that allows real-time video broadcasts. Demographic : Same as Facebook—primarily older adults. Monetization : Fans can send stars (a form of tipping), and some streamers get access to ads during the broadcast. Best for : Hosting live Q&As, announcements, casual hangouts, or interactive events with people who already follow you on Facebook. Instagram Instagram is a visual platform focused on images and short videos. It includes feed posts, Stories (short temporary clips), and Reels (short-form videos like TikTok). Demographic : Popular with people 18–35. Monetization : Brand deals, affiliate links, badges during live streams, and product sales via shops. Best for : Photo-focused content, short creative videos, and building a lifestyle brand or personal image. Instagram Live Instagram Live lets you broadcast live to your followers. You can also go live with other people in split screen. Demographic : Same as Instagram—mostly young adults. Monetization : Viewers can send badges (tips) during the stream. Some influencers use live shopping or Q&As to connect more deeply. Best for : Casual chats, behind-the-scenes content, announcements, or community engagement in real time. TikTok TikTok is a short-form video platform, originally focused on dance trends and lip-syncing, but now including everything from education to humor to storytelling. Demographic : Ages 13–30 primarily, but older creators are growing in numbers. Monetization : Creator Fund (limited), brand partnerships, affiliate links, and promoting personal products or services. Best for : Quick, entertaining, or creative videos that catch attention fast. TikTok Live TikTok Live allows creators to stream to their followers in real time. Demographic : Same as TikTok—mostly younger viewers. Monetization : Viewers can send gifts (virtual items that translate into real earnings). Best for : Live chats, tutorials, music, or quick interactive content with younger fans. Reddit Reddit is a large network of user-created communities called “subreddits,” where people post content and comment on a wide range of topics. Demographic : Primarily 18–40, with a strong tech-savvy user base. Monetization : Reddit does not directly offer monetization, but people often link to products, websites, or YouTube channels to drive traffic. Some use Reddit to build authority or followings elsewhere. Best for : Text-based content, advice, discussions, niche topics, promoting your knowledge in specific areas without being overly self-promotional. Threads Threads is Meta’s alternative to Twitter (now called X). It is text-focused, simple, and tied to Instagram accounts. Demographic : Mostly Instagram users, so younger adults (18–35). Still growing, and adoption depends on your existing Instagram presence. Monetization : No built-in monetization yet. It’s mainly used to boost visibility and connect with audiences in real-time using short text posts. Best for : Short updates, thoughts, behind-the-scenes moments, or driving interest to longer content on other platforms. Substack Substack is a platform for creating and distributing email newsletters. Writers can build subscriber lists and offer free or paid subscriptions. Demographic : Readers looking for in-depth writing, journalism, essays, commentary, or personal newsletters. Ages 25 and up. Monetization : Paid subscriptions. You set your own price, and Substack takes a small percentage. Best for : Long-form writing, personal insights, opinion pieces, serialized stories, or educational newsletters. Medium Medium is a blogging platform that emphasizes thoughtful, high-quality writing. Articles are shared with a built-in reader base. Demographic : Professionals, creatives, and learners, mostly ages 25–50. Monetization : Partner Program pays writers based on how much time paying Medium members spend reading your content. Best for : Essays, storytelling, tutorials, deep-dives, and helpful content. It helps if you already write well and want an audience interested in reading longer material. Final Thoughts There are many ways to share your voice or content online, whether you prefer writing, video, live interaction, or audio. You do not need to use all of them. Choose what fits your comfort level and your goals. Technology changes quickly, but the core purpose remains the same: communication, connection, and expression. Whether you are teaching, entertaining, sharing your life, offering support, or building something of your own—these platforms are simply tools. You do not have to be young. You are never too old to learn something new. You do not have to be an expert. You only need a reason to try. If you have something to say or something to give, there is a space for it. You may not have grown up with smartphones and social media, but that does not mean you are too late to join the conversation. The internet is not just for other generations—it is for anyone willing to take a step forward. You are never too far behind to start. Resources Streaming & Video Platforms Twitch YouTube Kick Facebook Live Instagram Live TikTok Live Video & Photo Content YouTube Instagram TikTok Social Media Platforms X (formerly Twitter) Truth Social Facebook Instagram Threads Reddit Blogging Tools WordPress Blogger Wix Medium Substack Podcast Platforms & Tools Spotify for Podcasters Apple Podcasts Buzzsprout Podbean Anchor (now Spotify for Podcasters)

I have been wearing this Reebok brand, style, and colors for over thirty years—they were first introduced in the 1980s. I have replaced them only a couple of times since the first pairs. They last a really long time if you take care of them! I do not recall how much they cost when I first found them at the Reebok outlet in Nashville. However, I bought a pair in 2018, and the price was $19.95. After a coupon, the total I paid was only $14.88! Receipt for Reebok Sneakers The soles began to separate this past month, so I bought some Gorilla Glue for a quick repair. They are holding up pretty well. However, I noticed my soles getting thin lately. I decided I would jump on Amazon and see if they are still available. Wow, the price has increased, and the cheapest I can find is $47.29! Even on the Reebok website, they are $55.00!! I am really disappointed that they have become unaffordable for me! I once tried a different brand, and they lacked the comfort, lightweight, and minimalist style that I enjoy in my footwear. These shoes are my daily footwear, but I must admit, I rarely wore shoes for the last four years, and when I did, they were flip-flops. Since starting my goal of going outside daily in September of 2024, I also began wearing shoes every day in anticipation of going back to work as a substitute. Although the job did not work out, I kept up wearing these sneakers. This has been especially helpful after starting my walking program and mowing my own lawn, both of which started in March. I wore one pair or the other daily when I was working as a substitute from 2003 - 2021. I tried to find other casual shoes to wear for my job, but nothing felt right once I bought them home. The black shoes are great when I wear jeans or pants. They blend in well and look less like sneakers than the white style. The white style is my go-to for everyday casual shorts wear. It is really difficult to find shoes—especially in the size and width I need—9.5 Wide. Reebok Princess had it all! A Closer Look The Reebok Princess Wide D sneakers are known for their timeless, low-profile silhouette that makes them a staple for both casual and professional settings. Unlike bulky athletic shoes, these sneakers have a sleek and refined appearance, making them versatile enough to pair with a range of outfits. The synthetic leather upper gives them a smooth and clean finish, making them easy to wipe down and maintain over time. One of the standout features of these shoes is the soft terry cloth lining, which provides a lightweight and breathable feel. This lining is designed to wick away moisture, keeping feet comfortable even during extended wear. It adds a slight cushioning effect, reducing friction and preventing irritation—something I appreciate, especially when wearing them for long hours. My feet never feel hot when wearing these sneakers—even for long hours. The cushioned insole and padded foam sock liner create a plush feel underfoot. Unlike many other sneakers that require a break-in period, these feel comfortable right out of the box. The arch support is moderate, which works well for people who prefer a neutral, unrestrictive fit without excessive contouring. Another major reason I have stayed loyal to this style is the durable rubber outsole. The material is flexible but sturdy, allowing for natural foot movement without feeling stiff. The flat, even sole design provides excellent stability, making them ideal for walking, standing for long periods, and even light physical activity. The lack of excessive grooves or deep tread patterns prevents dirt from getting trapped, which makes cleaning them much easier compared to heavily textured soles. The wide fit option is a crucial feature for those who need more room in their shoes. Unlike standard width sneakers that can feel tight across the ball of the foot, the Wide D sizing ensures a relaxed, non-restrictive fit. This makes them an excellent choice for people with wider feet, as well as those who experience swelling or discomfort with narrower styles. If you do not need the wide width, they come in regular width as well. The black version offers a sleek, understated look, making it easy to wear with jeans, dress pants, or even casual work attire. They do not scream that they are athletic shoes, so they blend well in semi-professional settings. The white version, on the other hand, has a classic, fresh appeal—ideal for shorts, casual dresses, and everyday errands. Final Thoughts Whether for daily wear, work, or light activity, the Reebok Princess sneakers continue to deliver everything I look for in a shoe. Despite the rising cost, the Reebok Princess Wide D sneakers remain my all-time favorite shoes for their unbeatable comfort, durability, and classic style. It is clear why they have remained my favorite choice for decades! While I wish I could justify spending $50 on a new white pair at this time, I will have to make do with my current ones for now. Hopefully, they will last through my upcoming trip in May. It is disappointing to see a once-affordable brand named sneaker sell for a luxury price, but for now, I will continue wearing and appreciating the pairs I have left. Philippians 4:11-12 “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.”

I was playing a game online and had to make bread. I mistakenly said, "I need to cook bread," and then I thought it did not sound quite right. After struggling for a few seconds, I remembered it was "bake bread." I continued to think about cooking terms and how many different ones there actually are—fry an egg, boil the potatoes, steam the broccoli. It struck me that there could be a long list of these terms, which might actually be really helpful to someone—especially someone just starting out in the kitchen. Cooking involves more than just following recipes. Each method has a specific name and purpose, and knowing these terms can improve both understanding and results in the kitchen. Whether you are heating oil to sauté vegetables or gently simmering soup, the word used for the technique matters. This post focuses on cooking terms and includes simple explanations and example sentences that use the term. Some letters do not have cooking terms associated with them, but all valid ones are included here. Aerate To incorporate air into a mixture to make it lighter. I aerate the flour by sifting it before baking the cake. You should aerate the flour before measuring to make sure the amount is accurate. Bake Cooking food with dry heat in an enclosed space, such as an oven. This method is commonly used for bread, cakes, and pastries. Bake a loaf of sourdough bread. She loves to bake cookies for her friends. Baste Spooning or brushing liquids over food during cooking to keep it moist. Baste a turkey with melted butter. She bastes the turkey every 30 minutes to keep it moist. Blanch Boil food and then rapidly cools it in ice water to stop the cooking process. Blanch green beans. If you blanch asparagus, it will keep it bright green and crisp. Boil Cook food in liquid that has reached 212°F (100°C), causing rapid bubbling. Boil pasta in salted water. She waited for the water to boil before adding the pasta. Braise Sear food at high heat and then slowly cooks it in liquid at a lower temperature. Braise a pot roast. To make the meat tender, you should braise it for hours. Broil Cook food with direct high heat from above, usually in an oven’s broiler setting or over a grill. This method is ideal for quickly browning or charring food. Broil a steak until the top is browned. If you broil the steak for a minute, it will get a perfect crust. Caramelize A sweet, brown effect by slowly cooking food to bring out natural sugars. I let the apples cook slowly, allowing them to caramelize into a golden color. When you caramelize onions, they taste naturally sweet. Chiffonade Slicing leafy greens or herbs into thin ribbons for garnishing. Chiffonade basil for a garnish on pasta. I chiffonade parsley to sprinkle on top of a salad. Cure Preserve food using salt, sugar, or smoking. Cure salmon with sugar and salt to draw out excess moisture and enhance its flavor. Cure olives by soaking them in brine for several weeks to develop their taste. Deglaze Loosen browned bits from a pan by adding liquid, often to make a flavorful sauce. Deglaze a pan with red wine. I deglaze the pan with broth after searing meat. Dice Cut food into small, even cubes. Dice onions for a stir-fry. If you dice potatoes, they will cook quicker and more evenly. Dredge Coat food lightly with flour, breadcrumbs, or another dry ingredient before cooking. Dredge chicken in flour before frying for a crispy crust. You can dredge bananas in cinnamon for a tasty snack. Emulsify Force two normally unmixable liquids to blend into a smooth mixture. Emulsify oil and vinegar to make salad dressing. To make mayonnaise, you must emulsify oil and egg yolk. Ferment Allow bacteria or yeast to break down food, changing its flavor and texture. Ferment cabbage to make kimchi. You can ferment cabbage and salt to make sauerkraut. Fold Gently combine ingredients without deflating air incorporated into mixtures. Fold whipped cream into cake batter. Use a spatula to fold the ingredients together Fry Cook food in hot oil or butter, either shallow or deep, to create a crispy texture. Fry eggs in butter. He prefers to fry his eggs in olive oil. Glaze Coat food with a shiny, often sweet or savory sauce. Glaze a ham with honey and brown sugar. Apply the glaze evenly over the cake to create a glossy finish. Grill Cooking food over an open flame or heated grates, creating distinct charred marks. Grill burgers on an outdoor grill. They decided to grill hot dogs for the barbecue. Hull To remove the outer leafy top or husk from produce. She asked me to hull the strawberries while she prepped the shortcake.  I needed to hull a handful of snap peas before tossing them into the stir-fry. Infuse To flavor a liquid by allowing an ingredient to steep in it. I infuse the oil with garlic before using it to dress the salad. Leaving rosemary in warm oil for an hour will infuse it with deep herbal flavor. Julienne Cutting slices of food into thin, matchstick-sized strips. Julienne carrots for a salad. To julienne the squash, cut them into thin strips an eighth of an inch wide. Knead Work dough by stretching and folding it repeatedly to develop gluten. Knead bread dough. According to the recipe, I need to fold the egg whites into the chocolate mixture. Lard To insert strips of fat into lean meat to keep it moist during cooking. They lard the game meat before roasting it to avoid dryness. To lard the meat properly, make sure the fat strips are evenly spaced. Marinate Soak food in a seasoned liquid before cooking to enhance flavor and tenderness. Marinate chicken in lemon juice, garlic, and herbs. You can marinate the beef in soy sauce to tenderize it before cooking. Mash To crush food until smooth Mash the potatoes with butter until they are smooth and creamy. You need to mash the vegetables thoroughly before serving. Mince Finely chop food into very small pieces. Mince garlic for pasta sauce. If you mince garlic too early, it can dry out. Nappe Completely coat a piece of food with a light, thin, even layer of sauce or a jelly. I nappe the fish with lemon butter just before serving. The chef decided to nappe the chicken with mushroom sauce to enhance its flavor. Neutralize Reducing or eliminating a strong or overpowering flavor. Lemon juice helped neutralize the fishy smell in the marinade. To neutralize the spice, add a dollop of sour cream. Oven-Dry To slowly dry food using low heat in an oven. I oven-dry the citrus peels to use them later in tea blends. After washing the herbs, I prefer to oven-dry them to preserve their flavor. Overcook To cook food for too long, causing it to lose its desired texture or taste. Be careful not to overcook the vegetables, or they will lose their crunch. If you forget to set the timer, you may overcook the rice into a sticky mess. Pickle Preserve food in an acidic brine, enhancing its shelf life and flavor. Pickle cucumbers to make dill pickles. You can pickle chunks of green tomato in brine. Poach Gently cooking food in simmering liquid without bringing it to a full boil. Poach eggs for eggs Benedict. I poach eggs when I want a soft yolk. Pressure Cook Rapidly cook food using high pressure steam and water in a sealed pot. Pressure cook a pot of chili. A pressure cook method saves time when making beans. Quarter Cut an item into four equal parts. I quarter the potatoes before tossing them in herbs and olive oil. To prepare the apples for the pie, first quarter them and remove the seeds. Quench Stop the cooking process, usually by cooling the food quickly, often in ice water. After blanching, you must quench the vegetables so they will stop cooking. You should quench pasta in cold water to prevent it from cooking further. Reduce Thicken and concentrate the flavor of a liquid by simmering it to evaporate excess water. Reduce a wine sauce by simmering for about 10 minutes. Let the sauce reduce over low heat until it reaches a thicker consistency. Roast Use dry heat in an oven or over an open flame to cook food, often at higher temperatures than baking. This technique enhances flavor and creates a crispy exterior. Roast a whole chicken with herbs. Nothing beats the smell of roast chicken in the oven. Sauté Cook food in a small pan with a small amount of oil or butter over medium to high heat. Sauté onions and mushrooms for a stir-fry. To bring out the flavor, sauté the mushrooms in butter. Sear Quickly cook food at high heat to create a browned, flavorful crust. Sear a steak in a cast-iron skillet. Sear the fish fillets in a skillet for a few minutes on each side for a crispy texture. Shred Grate or slice food into thin strips. Shred cheese for tacos. After cooking, she shreds the pork for sandwiches. Simmer Cook food in liquid at a temperature just below boiling, where only small bubbles appear. Simmer a pot of soup to bring out the flavors. The key to good chili is to simmer it slowly. Slow Cook Cook food at a steady, low temperature over several hours, typically in a slow cooker or crockpot. This method is well-suited for tougher cuts of meats. Slow cook pulled pork. He lets the chili slow cook all day for a rich flavor. Smoke Cook food slowly using wood or charcoal smoke, infusing it with deep flavors. You can smoke brisket in a wood chip smoker. To enhance the flavor, you can smoke the ribs over low heat for several hours. Sous Vide Submerge vacuum-sealed food in a precisely controlled water bath for even cooking. Sous vide a steak to maintain an even temperature throughout. The chef used sous vide to prepare the chicken to ensure it was tender and juicy. Steam Cook food using the vapor from boiling water, often in a covered pot or steamer basket. Steam broccoli to preserve all the nutrients. They steam dumplings instead of frying them. Stew Slowly cook small pieces of meat or vegetables in a liquid at a low temperature. Stew beef with potatoes, carrots, and onions. On cold nights, she likes to stew beef with potatoes. Stir-Fry Use high heat and constant stirring to cook small pieces of food quickly in a wok with a small amount of oil. Stir-fry chicken and vegetables. A quick stir-fry is a great way to use leftover vegetables. Toast Brown food by applying dry heat, usually in a toaster or oven. Toast slices of bread. If you toast the bread just right, it stays crunchy but not burnt. Unmold Remove food from a mold once it has set or cooked. I unmold the flan onto a chilled plate to keep its shape. The cake was easy to unmold once it had cooled for a few minutes. Whisk Rapidly beat ingredients to incorporate air or blend them smoothly. Whisk eggs to make a fluffy omelet. To make the batter smooth, whisk the ingredients together until there are no lumps. Zest Remove the outer peel of citrus fruits to add concentrated flavor. Zest a lemon for cake batter. A little lemon zest makes desserts taste fresh. Understanding cooking terms can elevate your kitchen skills. By mastering these specific techniques, you can approach your recipes with confidence and precision. Every cooking term has a purpose, and when used correctly, it helps you achieve the desired outcome. Whether you bake, braise, or broil, knowing the right term makes the process clearer and more efficient and ensures that your food is prepared as intended.. Proverbs 31:15 "She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants."

Renting a camper or RV can be a practical and flexible way to travel. It provides both transportation and accommodation in one, offering a level of freedom that traditional lodging options do not. For those who prefer a more settled stay, stationary RV rentals provide an alternative to hotels or vacation homes, offering the experience of RV living without the need to drive. In this post will be information whether you plan to hit the road with a rental or choose an option for delivery and setup. Purpose of Renting a Camper or RV People rent campers or RVs for various reasons. Some seek adventure and the ability to explore multiple destinations without the constraints of hotel reservations. Others want to experience nature more closely, as campgrounds and RV parks often provide scenic locations. For families, it can be a cost-effective way to travel while keeping everyone in a shared space. Some people rent RVs as a trial before deciding to purchase one. Advantages Over Hotels and House Rentals Compared to hotels, an RV eliminates the need to check in and out of different locations. It provides consistency, as you sleep in the same bed every night regardless of your destination. House rentals may offer space, but they lack mobility. A camper allows you to bring your living space with you, reducing the hassle of packing and unpacking. In a hotel, there are often additional costs such as parking, resort fees, or dining out. An RV provides a kitchen, which can help save money on meals. Additionally, pet owners may find it easier to travel with their pets in an RV rather than dealing with hotel pet policies. Cost Considerations RV rentals vary in price depending on the type of vehicle, duration of rental, and included amenities. Some rentals come with unlimited mileage, while others charge per mile. Gas costs can be significant, especially for larger RVs. Campground fees range from free boondocking sites to expensive RV resorts with full hookups and amenities. Insurance and potential damage fees should also be considered. Philosophical Perspective Renting an RV is not just about travel; it is about a mindset. It represents self-sufficiency, adaptability, and a willingness to embrace a simpler way of living, even if temporarily. Unlike a hotel, which is structured and fixed, an RV allows for spontaneity. The ability to wake up in a forest one day and by the ocean the next reflects a lifestyle of flexibility and openness to new experiences. Some see it as a return to a more nomadic way of life, where home is not a place but a moving concept. Challenges of Renting an RV While renting an RV offers freedom and flexibility, there are several challenges that renters should be aware of before committing. Driving and Maneuvering — RVs are much larger than regular vehicles, making them more difficult to drive, park, and turn. Large Class A motorhomes, in particular, require extra caution when navigating highways, gas stations, and campgrounds. Backing up can be tricky, and many first-time renters struggle with parking in tight spaces. Some RVs require a special license to drive, depending on size and weight. Gas Mileage and Fuel Costs — RVs are not fuel-efficient. Depending on the size and type of RV, gas mileage can range from 6 to 15 miles per gallon. Long road trips can quickly add up in fuel costs, especially with rising gas prices. Travelers on a budget should factor in fuel expenses when planning their trip. Campground Availability and Costs — Unlike hotels, which can be booked with relative ease, finding a campsite—especially in peak seasons—can be challenging. National parks, popular RV resorts, and campgrounds often fill up months in advance. Additionally, campsite fees vary greatly. Some locations offer free or low-cost b oondocking (camping without access to amenities like water, sewer, or electricity), w hile high-end RV resorts can charge over $100 per night. Setup and Maintenance — Unlike a hotel where everything is taken care of, an RV requires setup and ongoing maintenance. Renters must learn how to hook up to electricity, water, and sewage systems. Dumping wastewater tanks is an unavoidable task that can be unpleasant for first-time RV renters. If a mechanical issue arises, renters may have to wait for repairs, disrupting their trip. Weather and Comfort — RVs do not always provide the same comfort as a hotel or home rental. Air conditioning and heating depend on the power source, and extreme weather conditions can make an RV uncomfortable. High winds, heavy rain, or snow can make driving dangerous. Campgrounds may also lack shade or protection from the elements. Hidden Fees and Rental Restrictions — Many rental companies charge extra fees for mileage, generator use, cleaning, and dumping waste tanks. Some companies place restrictions on where you can take the RV, such as prohibiting travel on dirt roads or into certain regions. Renters should carefully read the contract to avoid unexpected charges. Limited Space and Storage — Even in a large RV, space is limited compared to a hotel room or rental home. Storage for luggage, food, and other essentials may be tight, and beds are often smaller than traditional ones. Bathrooms are compact, and showering can be a challenge if water supply and drainage capacity are limited. Is Renting an RV Worth It? For those who value adventure, flexibility, and a closer connection to nature, renting an RV can be a great experience despite the challenges. However, it requires preparation, patience, and a willingness to adapt. First-time renters should do their research, plan their route carefully, and be realistic about the costs and responsibilities involved. Stationary RV Rentals If you like the idea of staying in an RV, but do not want to deal with driving, parking, or setting up utilities, a stationary RV rental might be the perfect option. This type of rental is similar to booking an Airbnb, a tiny home or cabin, but with the added experience of staying in a recreational vehicle. A stationary RV rental means the RV is already parked at a designated location—often in a campground, RV resort, private property, or a dedicated RV rental site. The owner or host has taken care of all the setup, so you can simply arrive, settle in, and enjoy your stay without worrying about logistics like fuel, waste disposal, or navigating roads in a large vehicle. It is a unique alternative to hotels and vacation house rentals. Positives of Stationary RV Rental No Driving Required — One of the biggest concerns with RV rentals is driving a large vehicle, especially for those without experience handling oversized vehicles. With a stationary rental, you avoid the stress of maneuvering an RV, dealing with road restrictions, or worrying about fuel efficiency. Budget-Friendly Alternative — Since you are not paying for fuel or mileage, stationary RV rentals can be more cost-effective. Many rental platforms, such as Outdoorsy and RVshare, offer stationary listings at lower rates compared to drivable RVs. Some stationary rentals also include utilities in the price, avoiding additional fees for generator use or campsite hookups. Unique Stay Experience — A stationary RV rental offers a different lodging experience from a hotel or Airbnb. You get the cozy, compact space of an RV with a connection to nature. Many rentals are located in scenic areas like national parks, beaches, mountains, or forests, providing a peaceful setting. Some stationary RVs are even converted into luxury tiny homes with upgraded amenities. Ready-to-Use Setup — Unlike traditional RV rentals, where you must handle setup tasks like water, electricity, and sewage connections, stationary rentals are pre-set for convenience. The owner ensures that everything is hooked up and functional before your arrival. Variety of Locations — Stationary RV rentals can be found in various settings. Campgrounds & RV Resorts – These provide access to amenities such as pools, restrooms, laundry, and recreational activities. Private Land – Some owners rent out RVs on their own property, offering a secluded, quiet retreat. Urban or Unique Settings – Some listings place stationary RVs in city locations, near attractions, or in creative settings like vineyards or farms. Challenges of Stationary RV Rentals Limited Mobility — Unlike a drivable RV, you cannot change locations during your stay. If you want to visit multiple places, you must rely on other transportation options such as rental cars, bikes, or public transit. Space Constraints — Even the largest RVs have limited space compared to traditional rentals. The sleeping, kitchen, and bathroom areas are compact, which may be an adjustment for those used to full-sized accommodations. Seasonal Availability — Some stationary RV rentals are seasonal, especially in areas with extreme weather conditions. If the RV is not equipped for winter, it may not be available during colder months. Amenities Vary — While some stationary RVs are well-equipped with full kitchens, bathrooms, and entertainment systems, others may have more basic setups. Renters should carefully read the listing details to ensure the RV meets their expectations. Booking a Stationary RV Rental Platforms like Outdoorsy, RVshare, Airbnb, and Hipcamp offer listings for stationary RV rentals. When booking, consider the following: Location – Choose a setting that fits your trip, whether it is a campground, private property, or unique environment. Amenities – Confirm if the RV has essentials like heating, air conditioning, Wi-Fi, and a full bathroom. Reviews – Check guest feedback to ensure the rental is well-maintained and accurately described. Pet Policy – If you are traveling with pets, verify if they are allowed. Check-In Process – Some stationary rentals have self-check-in, while others require coordinating with the owner. Rental Costs RV rental prices vary based on type, size, location, and season—similar to the way hotels and vacation rentals vary. Drivable RVs (Class A, B, and C motorhomes) range from $150–$500 per night, with luxury models costing more. Towable RVs (travel trailers, fifth wheels, pop-up campers) are generally cheaper, averaging $50–$200 per night, but require a compatible vehicle to tow. Stationary RV rentals, where the RV stays parked at a set location, can be the most budget-friendly, typically costing $50–$150 per night, with some luxury setups charging more. Additional costs may include mileage fees (for drivable RVs or delivery), insurance, cleaning, and campground fees. Prices fluctuate based on demand, with summer and holiday weekends being the most expensive. Final Thoughts Renting a camper or RV offers a unique travel experience, whether you are hitting the road for an adventure or choosing a stationary rental for a comfortable stay. The flexibility, cost-effectiveness, and convenience of having both transportation and lodging in one make RV rentals an appealing option. Factors like driving challenges, fuel costs, and campsite availability should be considered before committing to a trip. For those who prefer a hassle-free stay, stationary RV rentals provide a great alternative, allowing travelers to enjoy the experience of RV living without the added responsibilities of driving and setup. It offers an affordable and memorable lodging experience, especially for those looking for something different from a traditional hotel or vacation home rental. Ultimately, the decision to rent a drivable or stationary RV depends on personal preferences and travel goals. If you enjoy the open road and the ability to change destinations at will, a traditional RV rental may be the best choice. On the other hand, if you want a unique lodging experience without the stress of driving, a stationary rental offers comfort and convenience. Either way, an RV rental provides an opportunity to step outside the usual hotel stay and embrace a different kind of travel experience. Camper and RV Rental Resources VRBO has a section for RV and caravan rentals, with delivery and setup options.  Outdoorsy specializes in RV rentals, and some owners offer delivery and setup. RVshare for RV rentals, and many owners offer delivery and setup.  Airbnb allows hosts to list RVs, campers, and motorhomes for rental.  RVezy offers RV rentals, with options for delivery and setup.  Hipcamp information on tent camping, RV parks, cabins, treehouses, and glamping. Discover and book in Australia, Canada, France, the United Kingdom, and the US. Psalm 121:8 "The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore."

Although 'Pitbull' isn't a breed, but an all encompassing term for several related breeds, we will use the term 'Pitbull' for simplicity throughout this post. A friend of a friend has a Pitbull that recently bit someone, and now I am concerned for my friend's safety as she plans to visit. She wants to go, but after hearing about the incident, she is unsure if it's safe to be around the dog. Evaluate the Risk If you are considering visiting someone who owns a Pitbull, but you are nervous, I understand your concern. If you plan to go, it's important to think about a few things: Know the dog's history : Has this dog bitten before, or was the bite a one-time incident? It's important to understand the dog's behavior and past actions to assess any risks. Talk to the owner : If you decide to visit, you should have an open conversation with the dog’s owner. It's crucial to ask if the dog has undergone behavioral training or has been evaluated by a professional to understand how they’re managing the situation. Safety precautions : It’s essential to think about whether there will be a way to keep the dog contained or separated from you during your visit. Having a plan in place for safety can give peace of mind. Trust your instincts : If you feel uneasy or unsure about visiting, it’s okay to trust your instincts and reconsider. Safety should always come first. The most important thing is to ensure that the dog’s behavior is being managed and that there are proper precautions in place. While breed plays a part, it's more about understanding the individual dog's behavior and any triggers that may be present. Introduction Pitbulls are a group of dog breeds known for their strength, loyalty, and affectionate nature. They are often misunderstood due to their history and media portrayal. Below is detailed information about the breed, including history, temperament, care needs, and misconceptions. History of the Pitbull The term “Pitbull” is not a single breed but refers to several breeds that share a common ancestry. These include: American Pit Bull Terrier (APBT)  – The most recognized breed under the Pitbull category. American Staffordshire Terrier  – Slightly larger and more muscular than the APBT. Staffordshire Bull Terrier  – A smaller breed, known for its affectionate nature. American Bully  – A newer breed with a stockier build. Pitbulls originated in England, Ireland, and Scotland in the 19th century. They were bred from bulldogs and terriers for bull-baiting and dog fighting, but when those bloodsports were outlawed, the breed transitioned to farm work, hunting, and companionship. Physical Characteristics Size : Generally medium-sized, weighing between 30-85 pounds, depending on breed. Muscular Build : Pitbulls have a strong, athletic body. Head Shape : Broad skull with a powerful jaw. Coat : Short, smooth coat that comes in many colors. Lifespan : Typically 12-16 years. Temperament and Personality Despite their reputation, Pitbulls are known for being: Loyal  – Extremely devoted to their owners. Affectionate  – Often called “nanny dogs” due to their love for children. Intelligent  – Highly trainable and eager to please. Energetic  – Require regular exercise and mental stimulation. Social  – With proper training, they can be friendly with other dogs and pets. Myth : Many believe Pitbulls are naturally aggressive, but studies show their temperament is often more stable than breeds like Chihuahuas and Dachshunds. Training and Socialization Early Socialization : Introduce them to different environments, people, and animals while they’re young. Positive Reinforcement : Reward-based training works best. Obedience Training : Helps prevent bad habits and ensures they are well-behaved. Exercise Needs : At least 60-90 minutes of exercise daily to prevent boredom and destructive behavior. Common Health Concerns Like all breeds, Pitbulls are prone to certain health issues, including: Hip Dysplasia  – A genetic condition affecting joint function. Skin Allergies  – Sensitive to food and environmental allergens. Heart Disease  – Some are prone to congenital heart defects. Kneecap Dislocation (Luxating Patella)  – More common in smaller Pitbull breeds. Regular vet check-ups and a balanced diet help prevent many of these issues. Misconceptions and Breed-Specific Legislation (BSL) Myth: Pitbulls have "locking jaws"  – Their jaw structure is the same as other breeds. Myth: Pitbulls are more aggressive  – The American Temperament Test Society rates Pitbulls as having a very stable temperament. Breed Bans  – Some areas have bans or restrictions on Pitbulls, often due to misinformation and fear. Are Pitbulls Good Family Dogs? Yes! With proper training, socialization, and care, Pitbulls make wonderful, loving pets. They thrive in homes that provide structure, leadership, and plenty of physical activity. Recent Pitbull Incidents ​Pitbulls have been involved in several fatal incidents in recent years. Here are some notable cases:​ October 2024, Albany, NY: James Provost, 59, was fatally mauled by multiple dogs, including mixed-breed Pitbulls. Responding officers intervened, and the investigation led to the seizure of 23 dogs from the property. ​ September 2024, San Antonio, TX: An elderly veteran, Ramon Najera, 81, was attacked and killed by Pitbulls that had escaped their yard. The owners, Christian Morena and Abilene Schneider, received prison sentences of 18 and 15 years, respectively, for criminal negligence. ​ August 2024, Beaumont, TX: Hector Pierna, 78, was killed by two Pitbulls. The dogs were captured and euthanized following the attack. ​ July 2024, Alton, IL: A man in his early 50s died after being attacked by a Pitbull inside a residence. Emergency responders were unable to save him due to severe injuries and bleeding. ​ Additionally, data from DogsBite.org indicates that Pitbulls were responsible for 66% of fatal dog attacks in the U.S. from 2005 to 2019. Conclusion While Pitbulls can often be misunderstood, it’s essential to remember that their behavior is shaped largely by training, socialization, and their individual circumstances. Understanding the history, temperament, and care needs of Pitbulls helps to separate myth from reality, and shows that many of these dogs make loyal, affectionate, and well-behaved pets when raised in the right environment. However, like all breeds, Pitbulls have specific needs and can sometimes show unpredictable behaviors, especially if they haven’t been properly socialized or trained. If you're considering interacting with a Pitbull, whether as a visitor or owner, always ensure that safety precautions are in place, and that the dog's behavior is being managed appropriately. It’s not just about the breed; it’s about the dog's individual history and care. By staying informed and cautious, you can help prevent incidents and build a safer, more positive relationship with these often misunderstood dogs.

A church should be a place of faith, guidance, and spiritual growth. It should not be a place of control, fear, or manipulation. A healthy church will encourage you to grow in your relationship with God, allow you to ask questions, and support your personal spiritual journey. However, some religious groups cross the line into cult-like behavior, using biblical teachings to manipulate and control their members. It is important to recognize the warning signs and understand the differences between a church that guides and one that seeks control. If you are in a cult, you probably do not think you are. Most people in cults genuinely believe they have found something good—whether it is truth, purpose, or community. If someone suggests otherwise, your first reaction is likely denial. That is because cults do not advertise themselves as cults. They present themselves as the only right path, the only ones who truly understand, while outsiders just do not get it. Questioning is discouraged, doubt is treated as weakness, and leaving is made to seem impossible or dangerous. By the time you even consider the possibility, you have already been conditioned to reject it. Signs of a Controlling Religious Group If a church or religious organization does any of the following, it may be exercising control rather than providing guidance. Claims to be the Only True Path  – A controlling group will insist that their interpretation of scripture is the only correct one and that leaving the group results in spiritual destruction. Discourages Independent Thinking  – Members are discouraged from questioning leadership or studying scripture on their own. Uses Fear and Guilt  – Fear of punishment, shunning, or divine wrath is used to keep members in line. Strictly Controls Behavior  – Every aspect of life, including personal relationships, education, and finances, is dictated by the group. Demands Absolute Loyalty  – Members are required to prioritize the group over family, friendships, and personal well-being. Isolates Members from Outsiders  – Leaving the group often results in excommunication or shunning from family and friends who remain in the organization. Has a Controlling Leader or Governing Body  – A single leader or small group of leaders has unchecked power and enforces strict obedience. How Cults Manipulate Using Biblical Teachings Many cults use scripture to justify their control. They may take verses out of context to instill fear, promote extreme obedience, or discourage questioning. Some groups teach that they alone have the authority to interpret the Bible, preventing members from seeking outside perspectives. Others will claim divine revelation that supersedes scripture, elevating their leader to an unquestionable status. For example, Jehovah’s Witnesses teach that their Governing Body is God’s sole channel of communication on Earth, and members must accept its teachings without question. Scientology uses a complex system of teachings that demand financial and emotional commitment, claiming that only through their system can a person achieve true enlightenment. Biblical Warnings About Spiritual Control The Bible repeatedly warns against false teachers and religious leaders who manipulate others for their own gain. A true church should guide and teach, not demand blind obedience or instill fear to maintain control. Scripture makes it clear that faith should bring freedom, not bondage. 2 Corinthians 3:17  – "Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." Spiritual leaders who misuse their authority often twist scripture to suit their own agenda. The Bible cautions against such deception. Colossians 2:8  – "See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ." Cults and manipulative religious groups often appear trustworthy and righteous on the surface. However, scripture warns about these people. Matthew 7:15  – "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves." Christ set believers free from the yoke of oppression, and no religious group should demand submission that contradicts God's will. Galatians 5:1  – "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." True faith is about following God, not human leaders. As the apostles boldly declared when brought in to be questioned by the high priest. Acts 5:29  – " Peter and the other apostles replied: “We must obey God rather than human beings! " God holds religious leaders accountable when they exploit their followers rather than serve them. Ezekiel 34:2-4  – "Woe to you shepherds of Israel who only take care of yourselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? You eat the curds, clothe yourselves with the wool and slaughter the choice animals, but you do not take care of the flock. You have not strengthened the weak or healed the sick or bound up the injured. You have not brought back the strays or searched for the lost. You have ruled them harshly and brutally." Believers are urged to question what they are being taught and to test whether it aligns with God's truth. 1 John 4:1  – "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." On the Topic of Shunning There are several Bible verses that are often cited regarding excommunication or shunning, though the context and application can vary. Some religious groups misuse these verses to justify extreme isolation, while biblical teachings emphasize discipline with the goal of repentance, not control or permanent separation. Verses Often Used to Justify Shunning 1 Corinthians 5:11-13  – Paul speaks about not associating with those who claim to be believers but persist in serious sin: "But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people... Expel the wicked person from among you." This refers to unrepentant sin and church discipline, not cutting off family or friends completely. 2 Thessalonians 3:14-15  – Paul advises believers to distance themselves from those who reject instruction but not to treat them as enemies: "Take special note of anyone who does not obey our instruction in this letter. Do not associate with them, in order that they may feel ashamed. Yet do not regard them as an enemy, but warn them as you would a fellow believer." Verses That Oppose Cult-Like Shunning Matthew 9:10-13  – Jesus ate with sinners and tax collectors, showing mercy instead of rejection: "On hearing this, Jesus said, ‘It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.’” Luke 15:1-7 (Parable of the Lost Sheep)  – Jesus emphasizes seeking the lost rather than casting them out: "Then Jesus told them this parable: 'Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Does he not leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it?'" John 9:22  – This verse describes how the Pharisees used excommunication as a form of control, much like cults do today: "His parents said this because they were afraid of the Jewish leaders, who already had decided that anyone who acknowledged that Jesus was the Messiah would be put out of the synagogue." Romans 8:38-39  – No one should be cut off from God’s love: "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Cults: Past and Present Throughout history, certain groups have crossed the line from faith-based communities to manipulative organizations that exert control over their members. Some have faded into history, while others continue to operate today, using fear, isolation, and strict obedience to maintain power. Peoples Temple (Jim Jones)  – Founded in the 1950s, this group ended in the mass suicide of over 900 members in Jonestown, Guyana, in 1978. Jones manipulated his followers through fear and isolation. Branch Davidians (David Koresh)  – A religious sect that followed Koresh, who claimed to be a prophet. The group’s standoff with the U.S. government in Waco, Texas, in 1993 resulted in the deaths of 76 people. Heaven’s Gate (Marshall Applewhite)  – A UFO-based cult that led to a mass suicide of 39 members in 1997, believing they would ascend to another level of existence. Children of God (The Family International)  – A group that encouraged disturbing practices, including child exploitation, under the claim of religious enlightenment. NXIVM (Keith Raniere)  – A modern cult disguised as a self-improvement organization, where leader Keith Raniere manipulated women into a secret society that included branding and coercion. He was convicted and sentenced to 120 yrs. in prison for racketeering activity, including human trafficking, sex offenses and fraud. Scientology (L. Ron Hubbard)  – A system based on Hubbard’s teachings, demanding high financial investments, psychological control, and strict loyalty, with members being cut off from dissenting family members. Jehovah’s Witnesses ( Charles Taze Russell) – A religious group that enforces strict obedience to its Governing Body, shuns former members, and discourages higher education and independent thinking. Final Thoughts The Bible consistently emphasizes the importance of truth, freedom, and accountability in faith. Jesus warned against religious leaders who burdened people with human-made rules and instead called His followers to a relationship built on love and grace. While church discipline has biblical precedence, it is meant to guide believers toward restoration, not control them through fear. True spiritual guidance empowers believers rather than restricting them, leading with love instead of manipulation. A healthy church encourages spiritual growth, allows for honest questions, and ultimately leads people toward Christ—not toward allegiance to a human leader or organization. Faith should strengthen and uplift you, not bind you in fear and control. If a group discourages questioning, isolates you from loved ones, or controls major aspects of your life, it is not guiding you—it is controlling you. Recognizing these signs can help protect yourself and others from falling into harmful religious manipulation. John 4:24 "God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

Homophones are words that sound the same but have different meanings and different spellings. They can be tricky, especially for language learners, as they can easily lead to confusion in both speaking and writing. Whether it is a simple mix-up between "their," "there," and "they’re," or the classic "two," "too," and "to," homophones are everywhere in the English language. Understanding and using them correctly can be a fun challenge, but it is also essential for clear communication. I have listed some homophones so you can discover just how quirky and intriguing this part of the language can be! ate / eight "She ate a delicious sandwich for lunch." "I counted eight birds in the tree this morning." allowed / aloud "She was allowed to enter the classroom after the bell rang." "He read the letter aloud so everyone could hear it." ball / bawl "He kicked the ball across the field during the game." "When she got hurt, she began to bawl uncontrollably." band / banned "The local band played an energetic set at the festival." "The school banned cell phones during class time." bare / bear "The tree stood bare after the winter." "We spotted a bear wandering near the forest edge." base / bass "The soldiers established a secure base near the river." "The deep bass of the music vibrated through the concert hall." be / bee "It is important to be kind to others." "A busy bee buzzed around the blooming flowers." beech / beach "The beech tree in the park provided ample shade on a hot day." "They spent the afternoon relaxing on the sandy beach." berth / birth "The ship was given a berth in the busy harbor." "Her birth was celebrated with joy by the entire family." blue / blew "The sky was a brilliant shade of blue." "The strong wind blew all night long." bolder / boulder "After overcoming his fears, he became even bolder in his choices." "They struggled to move the massive boulder from the trail." brake / break "Please remember to brake at the stop sign." "Be careful not to break the fragile vase." capital / capitol "The startup raised enough capital to launch its new product." "The state capitol is an impressive building in the center of the city." carat / carrot "The jeweler confirmed that the diamond was a full two carats." "She added a freshly chopped carrot to the vegetable stew." cell / sell "The prisoner was confined in his small cell." "They decided to sell their old car online." cent / scent / sent "I found a cent on the sidewalk." "The scent of fresh bread filled the kitchen." "She sent a letter to her best friend." cereal / serial "He enjoys a bowl of cereal every morning for breakfast." "The detective binge-watched the gripping serial on television." chews / choose "The dog chews on his favorite bone for hours." "Please choose the option that best suits your needs." chord / cord "She struck a beautiful chord on the guitar during the performance." "He carefully wrapped the power cord around the plug." clause / claws "The contract contained a clause that protected both parties." "The cat retracted its claws when it felt safe." coarse / course "The fabric was too coarse to be comfortable against the skin." "She enrolled in a cooking course to improve her culinary skills." complement / compliment "The red wine was a perfect complement to the steak dinner." "He received a sincere compliment on his insightful presentation." council / counsel "The city council will meet to discuss the new regulations." "She sought counsel from her mentor before making the decision." currant / current "She sprinkled dried currants over the freshly baked muffins." "The river's current was strong after the heavy rains." days / daze "He eagerly counted the days until his birthday." "After the long flight, she was in a daze from exhaustion." dear / deer "My dear friend visited me last weekend." "A deer grazed peacefully in the meadow." dew / due "The grass was sparkling with dew in the early morning light." "The report is due by the end of the week." die / dye "If you do not water the plant, it might die." "She chose to dye her hair a bold color." discreet / discrete "They had a discreet conversation in the quiet hallway." "The data was organized into discrete categories for analysis." doe / dough "A gentle doe grazed in the quiet clearing of the forest." "She kneaded the dough until it was smooth and ready for baking." dual / duel "He held dual citizenship in both countries." "In the old tales, rivals often settled disputes with a duel." earn / urn "She worked tirelessly to earn every bit of her salary." "The family placed the precious mementos in a beautifully crafted urn." eye / I "Her eye caught the glimpse of a shooting star last night." "I decided to take a long walk to clear my mind." faze / phase "Nothing seemed to faze him, no matter how challenging the task." "The project will enter its final phase next month." flea / flee "The dog scratched incessantly, trying to get rid of a stubborn flea." "They had to flee the building when the fire alarm sounded." flew / flu / flue "The bird flew gracefully over the treetops." "He caught the flu and was confined to bed for several days." "The chimney's flue needs cleaning before winter arrives." fir / fur "The fir tree in the park is over a hundred years old." "The cat's fur felt soft and warm under my hand." flour / flower "She measured the flour carefully for the cake." "A single flower stood out in the garden." for / four "I saved money for a special trip." "There are four chairs around the table." forth / fourth "She stepped forth into the bright, promising future." "He finished in fourth place in the annual marathon." groan / grown "He let out a groan when he saw the pile of homework." "She has grown so much since the last time I saw her." guessed / guest "I guessed the answer correctly during the quiz." "The guest arrived early and was warmly welcomed at the party." hail / hale "They had to hail a cab in the busy downtown area." "The doctor confirmed that the patient was hale and hearty." hair / hare "She combed her hair before leaving the house." "A swift hare darted across the field." hall / haul "The grand hall of the museum impressed every visitor." "They had to haul the heavy boxes up several flights of stairs." heal / heel "Time will heal the wounds of yesterday." "She twisted her ankle and hurt her heel." heroin / heroine "Heroin addiction is a serious issue that affects many communities." "The brave firefighter was hailed as a true heroine after saving lives." hi / high "He gave a friendly hi as he walked by." "The kite soared high in the sky." hoarse / horse "After cheering at the concert, his voice became hoarse." "The horse galloped swiftly across the open field." hole / whole "The dog dug a hole in the backyard." "She ate the whole pie by herself." idle / idol "He sat idle during the long, monotonous meeting." "She admired the famous singer, considering him her idol." incite / insight "The controversial speech could incite unrest among the listeners." "Her insight into the problem helped the team find a solution." jay / J "The blue jay sang cheerfully in the early morning." "The letter J appears in words like 'jump' and 'joy'." knead / need "She learned how to knead dough by watching a baking tutorial." "I need to finish my assignment before the deadline." knight / night "The brave knight defended the kingdom." "It was a dark and stormy night." know / no "I know the answer to that question." "He said no when asked to join the team." lair / layer "The movie depicted a dragon retreating to its dark lair." "The cake had a rich layer of chocolate in the middle." leak / leek "We had to call a plumber because of a leak in the roof." "She added a sliced leek to the savory soup for extra flavor." led / lead "She led the group through the forest, making sure everyone stayed together." "The plumber used a piece of lead piping to fix the leak under the sink." loan / lone "He applied for a bank loan to start his own business." "She was the lone volunteer at the charity event that evening." made / maid "She made a beautiful painting in art class." "The maid tidied the room before the guests arrived." mail / male "The mail arrived early this morning." "The male peacock displayed his vibrant feathers." meat / meet "I prefer to eat lean meat for dinner." "Let's meet at the café after work." none / nun "None of the cookies were left after the party." "The nun volunteered at the local shelter." oar / ore "He grabbed an oar to row the boat across the lake." "Miners extracted precious ore from deep within the mountain." one / won "Learning new languages is one of my favorite hobbies." "She won the spelling bee after months of practice." our / hour "This is our favorite place to relax on weekends." "We have one hour left before the show starts." pair / pear / pare "I bought a new pair of shoes yesterday." "She enjoyed a juicy pear for a snack." "He learned how to pare the fruit with a knife." peace / piece "After a long day, I finally found peace in the quiet." "He offered her a piece of his chocolate bar." plane / plain "The plane landed safely at the airport." "They walked through the plain fields during the hike." queue / cue "We waited in a long queue outside the new movie theater." "The actor received his cue to enter the stage." rain / reign / rein "The rain kept us indoors all afternoon." "The queen's reign brought prosperity to the land." "He adjusted the rein to guide his horse carefully." read / reed "I love to read a good mystery novel." "A tall reed swayed in the gentle breeze by the lake." right / write / rite "You have the right to remain silent." "I need to write a letter to my friend." "The ancient rite was performed during the ceremony." sea / see "The sea was calm and sparkling under the sun." "I can see the lighthouse from my window." son / sun "My son is learning to ride a bicycle." "The sun set behind the hills in a blaze of colors." stair / stare "He climbed the stair carefully to avoid tripping." "I couldn't help but stare at the beautiful sunset." their / there / they're "Their house is located at the end of the street." "The keys are over there on the table." "They're planning a surprise party for the weekend." to / too / two "I am going to the library this afternoon." "She wanted to come too to the event." "I have two tickets for the concert." vain / vein / vane "He was so vain that he admired himself in every mirror." "The doctor examined the patient's vein before drawing blood." "The old weather vane spun wildly in the wind." wait / weight "Please wait outside until I call you." "The package's weight was too heavy for me to lift alone." way / whey "She discovered a new way to solve the problem." "He mixed the whey protein into his smoothie for extra strength." wear / where "I love to wear comfortable shoes on busy days." "Do you know where the nearest café is located?" witch / which "The witch in the story cast a mysterious spell." "Which movie are we going to watch tonight?" wood / would "He gathered wood to build a small campfire." "I would love to join you for the hike tomorrow." your / you're "Is that your jacket hanging on the chair?" "You're always welcome to join us for dinner." Homophones are not only a fun and confusing aspect of English, but they also exist in many other languages as well. For example, in French, “mer” (sea) and “mère” (mother) are homophones, and in Spanish, “bello” (beautiful) and “vello” (body hair) sound the same. These word pairs can sometimes lead to confusion for language learners, but they also highlight the richness and variety of language across cultures. I hope this post can help someone that is learning English. This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to homophones in English! If you have any other homophones you would like to add to the list, or if you would like to create a list in your native or fluent language, feel free to leave a comment below or get in touch!