When people hear the word 'Resilience', they tend to think of something rigid and unbreakable. When it comes to Mental Resilience, I strongly believe the opposite to be true.
Mental Resilience is layered. It's a foundation of bricks that is slowly laid out one by one until eventually you've made a home you feel comfortable in. There's no such thing as instant resilience, only resilience slowly built out of the many things you experience through out life. There is slower and faster ways to build that resilience though.
I believe the trick is to be open to the various opportunities and experiences that life offers you. So many people fear new things and change, the unknown. But I am here to tell you that there is only good things in life. It can be hard to understand why setbacks and drama can be good things when they're happening to you, but when you look back in hindsight you will see that you've grown because of those things. Just as metal is beaten into shape, you too are made more resilient by the challenges life presents you.
I tell you that if you pray for challenges, you will find them. And with those challenges, you will experience growth unlike any you've seen. You will become like a tall tree that is unyielding even in the fiercest winds. And you will become a place of safety and stability for those who might shelter under the shade of your tree. I ask that you might be an example to those around you. That you show others how to grow and to those that seek it, guide them towards challenges they might face. For all things are good things.
And when things become truly difficult, and you feel yourself failing, please ask for help. Pray that someone might be sent to help you. If you feel you need it, do not be ashamed to ask for help. But understand that you will never be given challenges that you can not overcome. And the bigger the challenge, the more opportunity there is to grow. Be proud of your struggling, revel in your setbacks, and praise the opportunity.
If you can do this, you will be strong. Strength for others and resilience for yourself.
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